StarAstrologer - Books : She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman
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Binding: Hardcover
Dewey Decimal Number: 613.9
EAN: 9780060538255
ISBN: 0060538252
Label: Collins Living
Manufacturer: Collins Living
Number Of Items: 1
Number Of Pages: 240
Publication Date: June 01, 2004
Publisher: Collins Living
Release Date: May 25, 2004
Studio: Collins Living
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Product Description: As women everywhere will attest, when it comes to understanding female sexuality, most guys know more about what's under the hood of a car than under the hood of a clitoris. And while it seems that men have struggled valiantly since the dawn of time to find ways to reliably elicit the female orgasm, rare is the guy who has the modesty to ask: "What do I do?" Ironically, the answer has always been right there on the tip of his tongue.
Welcome to the world of SHE COMES FIRST, where the mystery of female satisfaction is solved and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to Ian Kerner, clinical sexologist and evangelist of the female orgasm, oral sex has long been deemed an optional aspect of foreplay, but, in fact, it's coreplay -- simply the best way for leading a woman through the entire process of sexual response.
Fun, informative, and easy to read, SHE COMES FIRST is a virtual encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and illustrated step-by-step instructions to ensure success. These simple methods represent a new era in sexual intimacy, one in which the exchange of pleasure occurs on a level playing field and fulfillment is mutual.
SHE COMES FIRST exuberantly offers a fresh new sexual philosophy that inspires every man to make a mantra of Rhett Butler's infamous line to Scarlett O'Hara, "You should be kissed, and often, and by someone who knows how."
Amazon.com Review: "When it comes to pleasuring women and conversing in the language of love, cunnilingus should be every man's native tongue," writes clinical sexologist Ian Kerner, Ph.D. in She Comes First, a straightforward, intimate, and exuberant guide to cunnilingus. Kerner first explored "the oral caress" as a way of compensating for his "sexual inadequacies," and quickly learned that women not only welcomed but often preferred "the way of the tongue," reaching orgasm more consistently than through intercourse. Kerner educates readers about the clitoris, "the powerhouse of pleasure," with 18 parts and 8,000 nerve endings (twice as many as the penis) and describes female sexual response from "foreplay" through "coreplay" to "moreplay." A large part of the book is a graphic, detailed primer on "mouth music," including best positions, step-by-step techniques (illustrated), and tips for tongue and fingers. How long should this last? Until the woman has an orgasm or many, says Kerner, and "melts blissfully before your eyes." "The vast majority of women complain about guys who don't like to do it, don't know how to do it, or simply don't do it nearly enough," writes Kerner. This book will change that. Women: Buy it for your partner! --Joan Price
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Not only is this a very well-written text, often clever and provocative, it is also marvelous advice. Until I had read the Shere Hite reports, I had believed myself to be unusual at not being able to orgasm the way "normal" women were supposed to be able to; in fact, I was and remain perfectly normal. Our society does a tremendous disservice to girls and women by not giving them accurate information about their sexualities.
She Comes First is so important because it builds upon accurate ... Read More
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This book really is a great read (or listen) for any guy. While the initial section is a bit slow going and remedial the book gets progressively better. Section 2 is a little wandering but provides a good understanding on the female response cycle. Section 3 is definitely the most useful part though, it really ties the book together with step by step routines which really help.
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Finally, a man who understands!!! I can't wait for my husband to finish reading this...
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I found this book to be very helpful. I always want to please my sweetheart. When I started using what I learned in this book, my girlfriend started going into what we call a "sex coma" It is incredible to watch her expressions, hear her response and feel her have multiple orgasms. She has told me time after time that she has never experienced anything like this in her life. That makes me feel good knowing I have made her feel good!!!!!
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Women differ in what they like, just as men do. Some of what other women are alleged to enjoy I definitely wouldn't. I personally find standard missionary position lovemaking much much more satisfying than oral sex. For me, the climax is much more satisfying and intense with penetration. It really bugs me when I read statements saying that women prefer oral sex or manual stimulation. That is so bogus. Sure, it's true for some women but sure as hell not for me. On the other hand this book could be good for ... Read More
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